On Long Distance Relationships

IT NEVER WORKS! hahaha

Lately it's been all talk of long distance relationships...just writing random thoughts :)

I've heard from my friends that if I did find THE one and was in a relationship with Him, I wouldn't be packing my bags on a misadventure to Sydney. I should probably a) stay with him or b)fly to wherever he was, those two choices just seem like the natural progression of things. If you are really in love with the person (so they say)you just can't be without him.

But is that really true love? Love shouldn't stop you from doing the things your heart calls you to do. If you are unsure of how you feel about the person or how he feels about you, then you'd probably think twice about going for it. Shouldn't the one you're with love you enough to respect and support your dreams wherever it takes you? I believe that it takes a more secure and unconditional kind of love to trust that things will fall into place and that if you were really meant to be with that person then you two will meet at the right time when both of you have grown to be imperfectly perfect for each other. I think (atleast I hope) that that kind of love transcends time, space and all other temptations put before you. You can search all over the world and still find that no one else can compare to the one you have waiting for you at home or that one guy you carry in your heart.

My one wish for all of my friends is to have the courage to let their dreams take flight, to go for it, to broaden their horizons, to take risks and to feel more and more alive everyday. Having courage could be as wonderful as taking the leap to get married (hello invite me please, I'll be the last one to walk down the aisle), as fearless as quitting a job you're unhappy with (way to go La!), as hard as fighting for what you believe in (kudos to Sir Rich and Papa Ry), as amazing as being in a long term relationship or long distance relationship or leaving it (yay MV!), as awesome as being single by choice even if it seems like a looong looong time because you don't want to settle (I'm proud of you Derek!), as humbling as trusting God's greater plan for you (like K!), as admirable as owning up to your mistakes and making up for it (nice one Mich), as crazy as leaving your comfort zone or as random as going on a misadventure with me (any takers?). heehee.

That being said....VISIT MEEEEE!!!! so I'll have R&B dancing partners here :P

*ang haba haba pa ng sinulat ko, yun lang pala ang ending hehe :P